happy (late) halloween
well, everything's going well
holidays are coming...and you know what that means.....it's going to get crazy at best buy. we are talking about at the most 55 hours a week. that's cool w/ me cause of the good ole overtime! but sucks...cause i can't go home for christmas or thanksgiving. I'm going to miss my family this winter!
So, some buddies and me were having lunch about a couple of months ago, and "relationships" was brought up. We started talking about what we see in the opposite sex. Things were said from hair, eyes, lips, body.....and such and such. and then me and my other buddy (not using names) were at best buy and we were checking out...and to make this a short story....i was taking out my debit card out and then he took out his debit card and threw my card down on his just to be funny...and he said "i bet i have more money than you!".....and then i said "that's cool...at least i have a girlfriend". and sometime down the convo i said that money doesn't matter...and he was like..."yeah it does"
and i thought to myself....."does money really matter that much to a girl?"
in my head i was telling myself that it doesn't...but in this kinda city (franklin, TN) that matters alot to girls. even to guys. (more of a competition for the guys) Is it cause most of these parents pamper their daughters? no...i don't think so. i just think that some stay in that pampered mode and never get out of it. so they look for a guy who can do the same as their "daddy" did for them. kinda sucks.
don't get me wronge....there are girls that dads did that for them cause they love their little girl, but the girl grows up. and she understand that this world is not going to just give them everything in a silver platter. they just don't relay on their "good looks" to get by in this world. shame really.
and why does it seems that it's a competition between the guys? like...we have to have something better than the other dude...better car....cell phone.....cool little toys....tv....stereo systems....even the clothes we wear. sad isn't it. i'm glad that it's not like that w/ my close buds. we might joke around w/ it...but never really trying to bring anyone down.
what happened to the guys trying to open the doors for a girl? or even pulling out a chair for them when they sit down?
what happened when for a girl, all that mattered was how the guy made them feel? like they are amazing or, now a days, sending a text telling them that they miss them or are thinking about them? or flowers?
i really don't have a standard when it comes to a girl. well, i take that back....i do have some.
to me...a girl needs to have a sense a humor. an up-beat personality. out going.
i mean...there are things that catch my eyes....like...blue eyes...long hair....blonde....and just incase you are reading this....and you meet all these things......call me!!! lol
but, honestly, all that matters to me....if she loves me for who i am....not for what i'll become. cause i know that i am not going to change who i am....but i also know that i might not have a million dollars...or have fancy things...or even a big house....but....
i do know how to love someone
and that's what i am going to do
i'll give 150%
so.....that was my rant....i'm done
and i am going to the gym now. going to tone up a bit...and going to lose this gut that i have.
can't wait to go home for my buddies wedding. I'm the best man....and i have to give a speech...haven't wrote it yet....and i have to throw a party too!! i need to start planning stuff
anyways....later folks
PS
i met the singer of paramore last night...she's a cuttie
holidays are coming...and you know what that means.....it's going to get crazy at best buy. we are talking about at the most 55 hours a week. that's cool w/ me cause of the good ole overtime! but sucks...cause i can't go home for christmas or thanksgiving. I'm going to miss my family this winter!
So, some buddies and me were having lunch about a couple of months ago, and "relationships" was brought up. We started talking about what we see in the opposite sex. Things were said from hair, eyes, lips, body.....and such and such. and then me and my other buddy (not using names) were at best buy and we were checking out...and to make this a short story....i was taking out my debit card out and then he took out his debit card and threw my card down on his just to be funny...and he said "i bet i have more money than you!".....and then i said "that's cool...at least i have a girlfriend". and sometime down the convo i said that money doesn't matter...and he was like..."yeah it does"
and i thought to myself....."does money really matter that much to a girl?"
in my head i was telling myself that it doesn't...but in this kinda city (franklin, TN) that matters alot to girls. even to guys. (more of a competition for the guys) Is it cause most of these parents pamper their daughters? no...i don't think so. i just think that some stay in that pampered mode and never get out of it. so they look for a guy who can do the same as their "daddy" did for them. kinda sucks.
don't get me wronge....there are girls that dads did that for them cause they love their little girl, but the girl grows up. and she understand that this world is not going to just give them everything in a silver platter. they just don't relay on their "good looks" to get by in this world. shame really.
and why does it seems that it's a competition between the guys? like...we have to have something better than the other dude...better car....cell phone.....cool little toys....tv....stereo systems....even the clothes we wear. sad isn't it. i'm glad that it's not like that w/ my close buds. we might joke around w/ it...but never really trying to bring anyone down.
what happened to the guys trying to open the doors for a girl? or even pulling out a chair for them when they sit down?
what happened when for a girl, all that mattered was how the guy made them feel? like they are amazing or, now a days, sending a text telling them that they miss them or are thinking about them? or flowers?
i really don't have a standard when it comes to a girl. well, i take that back....i do have some.
to me...a girl needs to have a sense a humor. an up-beat personality. out going.
i mean...there are things that catch my eyes....like...blue eyes...long hair....blonde....and just incase you are reading this....and you meet all these things......call me!!! lol
but, honestly, all that matters to me....if she loves me for who i am....not for what i'll become. cause i know that i am not going to change who i am....but i also know that i might not have a million dollars...or have fancy things...or even a big house....but....
i do know how to love someone
and that's what i am going to do
i'll give 150%
so.....that was my rant....i'm done
and i am going to the gym now. going to tone up a bit...and going to lose this gut that i have.
can't wait to go home for my buddies wedding. I'm the best man....and i have to give a speech...haven't wrote it yet....and i have to throw a party too!! i need to start planning stuff
anyways....later folks
PS
i met the singer of paramore last night...she's a cuttie
posted by Edwin at 9:43 PM
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